Amateur Match
As you can probably guess Amateur Match isn’t the place to go if you are just looking for walks in the park or a lunch date, it is for real (hence the word “amateur” in the site name) singles and couples looking for sex and casual encounters.
After I signed up to check it out I noticed there was a pretty big emphasis on live sex cams. Some of them are amateur and come free with the membership cost of the site and some of the them are premium cams with pornstar and adult pros where you have to pay extra. And since the live cams were mixed in with the regular dating profiles it was a little confusing to see who was actually in my local area looking to meet and who was just on cam. After I surfed around and got the hang of it I was able to connect with some actual women, though I wish they would make the separation more distinct.
After I filled out my profile and uploaded my picture (for best results) I started to message some hot chicks I was interested in. While some of them seemed fake – like they were spammers or bots – I did actually message back and forth with some real chicks, eventually getting one of their digits and having some sexy talk on the phone. Haven’t done that In awhile! I haven’t met anyone IRL yet but I’ve got some leads … hoping to hook something up this weekend.
As far as the nuts and bolts go, the design and navigation is clean and fine, and they have the usual features as other adult dating sites like mail, advanced search, sees who’s online as well as adult entertainment options like porn videos and adult games.
While not the best sex personals site out there right now Amateur Match is worth getting out your credit card and joining if you are looking for a newer site with some different girls.
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- Review By Kris
XXXMatch
XXXMatch boasts it has 29 million members but it looks like only 89% are active. While the percentage of women was lower then some of the other adult dating sites there was still a good number. The site has been going since 2002 so it has had the time to build up a fair amount of members, women and activity. I became a paying member awhile ago and I remember that there were even some pornstars on there, though I haven’t seen any lately.
But even without my favorite adult stars XXXMatch has plenty of cool features and a simple easy to use interface. Some of the features include advanced profile search, the ability to make favorite lists and photo albums of XXX Match members, instant private messaging, video sharing, profile rating and live audio and video chat with other members. The audio and video chat is what I liked best about the site. It was nice to see and hear in real time the person I was talking to in order to decide whether I wanted to hook up with them or not. Some other dating sites that don’t offer such features seem behind the times technology wise. XXXMatch is not one of them.
Cool features aside in the end all that matters is whether or not you hooked up with anyone for some sexy times. I have been a member of this site off and on over a few years and while I have struck out a few times (hey, who doesn’t, right?) I have met up with a nice amount of chicks. Some of them just ended up being friends to this day, others became much more than that.
Most of the women seemed to be from North America, and the next area that is represented most is Europe. If you are not from either of those continents you wont have much luck finding someone in your local area, I’m afraid. If you are you should be able to find someone to fuck unless you are literally living in a cave.
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- Review by Joel.
Real Sex Dates
Part of a big network of dating sites, you can sign up for free to Real Sex Dates to take a look. The free membership just gives you limited access, but will allow to to check out the women on there and get a feel for the site.
After I first signed up I noticed some of the profiles seemed too good to be true … I think I even saw Raven Riley on there ; ) But thanks to spammers this seems to be common on most adult dating websites. I did chat with some real women from my area and even met one so I know they are not all fake.
“Flirts” are limited with the free membership though you can see who likes you and send “Ecards” as well. You also can use the advance search to narrow down your quest to the kinks, tastes, ages, body types, hair colors etc. that turn you on.
While you can see other members with the free membership they cannot see your profile until you upgrade. But even if you just have the free membership you can still get a taste of the other features RealSexDates offers like adult games, free cam shows, porn movies and advice on how to pick up and hook up with women.
I recommend upgrading to the paid membership once you find someone you want to hook up and have sex with. This will give you the ability to chat and connect with them and set up a sex date. With the paid membership you can also send unlimited Ecards, flirts, post comments on profiles and blogs and get unlimited text and can chats.
While some of the fake spammers were annoying I did manage to hook up with a sexy young chick that I still am banging every weekend. Real Sex Dates is another new site worth a look.
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- Review By Kris
XXXDating
XXXDating is another new dating site on the scene that I’ve been checking out and I like what I am seeing so far.
After I signed up it wasdn’t long before I started talking to some local hotties that I haven’t seen or met before, online or off. I will post a full review soon and let you know how it goes … but I have a good feeling about it already : )
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- Joel
xProfiles
xProfiles is a newer dating site that would be of interest to you if you are looking for sexy times. Unlike a lot of other dating sites out there xProfiles has plenty of social site features that makes it fun to use if you are into sites like Facebook, MySpace and Twitter. But instead of reading about what Grandma ate for lunch that day you will find hot and horny women looking to fuck.
Let’s take a walk through of the site and check it out.
Signing up is pretty easy to do and not complicated as well. You just have to enter username, password, the regular shit and you are in for free. Make sure you confirm by email. Check your spam filters because sometimes validation emails get sent there for some reason.
The functionality and design is good and it is easy to figure out how to navigate and get around the site. You will discover that it is free to sign up and look around but if you want to message and communicate with other members you will have to upgrade, which seems pretty common for adult dating sites. When you are logged in you will see a menu navigation bar on the left side of the screen where you can browse users, do cam chats, flirts, play adult flash games, check out the blogs or whatever you want to do. There you also see your notifications when others are trying to contact you to meet up or chat.
As far as the cost like I said earlier it is free to sign up. With the free membership you can only chat with people who have contacted your first, as well as cam chat and the ability to upload pictures and videos. You can get a good feel for the site with just a free membership and even have a chance to hook up as well if someone likes your profile. When you upgrade to the VIP membership all the membership features are unlocked, which means you can initiate contact with whoever you want to fuck, as well as the ability to leave as many comments as you want on people’s posts, profiles and content. The VIP membership also allows you to watch the hot private videos and pictures and your profile will be prominently featured which gives you a better chance for someone to come across your profile and contact you. There is also better support with the VIP membership so if you ever have any issue there is someone to help you 24-7.
If you are looking for a raunchy hook up site with plenty of hot and dirty girls to choose from, with plenty of cool social networking features xProfiles is worth a look.
Click here to get instant access to xProfiles now.
- Review By Kris
Untrue
Untrue just came out and it looks like it has potential.
Like Ashley Madison, it is a website for those who are looking for an affair.
Specifically, it caters to those who are married but are looking for a discreet hook up.
Full review coming soon.
Curious?
- Joel
GetItOn
GetItOn is another new site in the dating area with some new twists in the format as well. One thing that makes it different from the other sex personals sites I’ve joined is that it does compatibility testing when you sign up in order to match you with the perfect sex partner, which is kind of nice since it saves you time clicking and surfing around a site trying to find a great lay. When you first sign up you have to fill out a short one page questionnaire that wasn’t too annoying – compared to say the one at Plenty of Fish. It asks you about your likes, dislikes, sexual fantasies, fetishes and preferences.
Judging from the women I chatted with the sexual compatibility match was pretty accurate, though a few of them women they recommended were not my taste at all. Oh well, it’s not like you are forced to talk to them anyway.
The rest of the registration was thankfully simple as well, only taking a few minutes to complete.
It has the regular features that most adult personals sites have like live chat, video and audio messaging, email, virtual flirts, advanced search so you can find someone with the body type, age, sexual interests and fetishes you desire, webcam chat, hot lists, friend lists, and video / photo uploads. Nothing too ground breaking here, but all the features any contemporary sex dating site should have.
As far a the types of memberships you can get, there are free and paid memberships. The free is good if you want to look around the site, get a feel for it and check out the potential sex partners. If you want to unlock the rest of the features above and chat and hook up with anyone you are going to have to do the paid sign up.
GetItOn is a newer site with a fresh feel and some fresh faces that I never saw on the other dating sites. But it is still growing and could use some new members. It should clean out some of the growing number of fake bullshit profiles as well.
GetItOn is a good site for those bored with the same old dating sites and are looking for something novel to rekindle the online dating fire.
Click here to check out GetItOn.
- Review by Joel.
Rudester
Rudester is a fresh new dating site with a very simple and direct approach. As for its purpose it doesn’t beat around the bush – it’s for people who simply want to hook up and fuck local people.
The main thing I liked about Rudester – aside from the amorous encounters you could find there of course – was the cool and new layout, features and style, unlike the majority of adult dating sites that look and feel like they were stuck in the Geocities or Angelfire era. It just makes for a more pleasurable surfing experience.
To check it out you can just sign up for free, by oddly it doesn’t tell you it’s free until after you sign up. Kind of weird, but whatever. Once you are logged in you will discover unlike a lot of other hook up sites the members area isn’t cluttered with ads and upsells, which is cool. Less distractions. You’ll notice it looks like Facebook but it’s different – Grandpa and Grandma aren’t on there to see your cock shots for one.
It is best just to set up an honest profile – and I’m not just talking about using a current picture instead of one when you are 18 and on a steroid cycle – since people are looking for wild and kinky hardcore sex it is best to lay on the table what you really want, what really turns you on, what kinky and dirty stuff you are into to. That’s what everyone is looking for, not a walk by the lake and an ice cream (well, maybe after). You should also fill out your likes and dislikes in a mate and sex partner as well as pictures and video, as you will get a much better response than just words.
Another nice feature is that Rudester provides anonymity features where you can control who can see and read your information and how much you want to share, which is perfect if you are thinking about cheating on your girlfriend, wife or whatever partner you have.
It also is built with growth, expandability and evolution in mind, which makes it like Facebook in another way . There are new features added on a regular basis and members can even add new features and applications themselves, which is something I haven’t seen on any other dating website.
While it is free to join, to get the most out of the site (and the most fucking) you should upgrade to a VIP membership. When you upgrade you are able to send and receive unlimited messages, post unlimited comments, blog entries and add unlimited friends. You will find this necessary as there is nothing more frustrating then when you are about to hook up with someone and you can’t because of the limitations of your free account. The price for the VIP is $29.99 a month which puts it in line with other dating sites, although it is cheaper the longer you buy a membership. For example it is $19.98 per month if you buy for three months and $8.32 a month if you buy a one year membership.
One possible drawback is that Rudester may be too hardcore if you are just looking for friends, so keep that in mind. As one of my friends said, it like Facebook or Plenty Of Fish on steroids, cocaine and Viagra.
- Review By Kris
Adult Friend Finder
Adult Friend Finder is one of the most recognizable names in online dating sites with 24 million members making it easily the largest dating site online. What is surprising about those numbers is the relative lack of fake profiles and spam, unlike other dating websites which seem to mostly consist of them.
You can search for people and people can find you based on interests such as 1-on-1 sex, discreet relationships, even group sex. These are only a few of the many interests listed.
After I joined I found the interface pretty easy to use and was surprisingly not too bad to search through considering the millions of potential mates on there.
One thing that is cool about Adult Friend Finder is that in addition to personal ads they offer tons of other features and services like live chat rooms and the Sex Academy where you can learn new sexual techniques and how to explore your erotic horizons, if you wish.
One other cool feature is the protections they have in place so you don’t hook up with Charles Manson’s bastard child. They have a system called ConfirmID which makes sure the person you are hooking up with is the age and gender they said they were – no surprises! Of course it is still completely anonymous except for any information you want to give out yourself.
After I signed up to review it I enjoyed it so much – and actually met a few people offline – that I stayed a member. It’s definitely one of the best out there. If you want to check out Adult Friend Finder you can do it here.
- Review By Kris
Ashley Madison
You probably have heard about Ashley Madison due to the huge amount of media attention they get due to their controversial approach to dating websites. If you don’t know already it is a dating site that promotes adultery, cheating and deceit and is summed up in it’s tagline, “Life is Short, Have an Affair.”
While some my find the idea offensive it obviously struck a chord with plenty of others as they have close to 9 million members at this time of writing.
To check it out you can sign up for free to take a look, but you can only check out the profiles and are not able to contact or chat with other members. In order to do that you need to upgrade to a paid membership. The one cool thing about Ashley Madison is that they offer an “affair guarantee” where you can get your money back if you don’t end up getting sex through their site. There is a list of things that have to be done in order to qualify for the refund however, like having a full profile with a picture that is always visible for three months.
The layout is set up to be able to chat and surf profile simultaneously and is also clean and easy to navigate. The categories of relationship types is the most numerous and varied of any adult personals site I have seen.
While there have been some complaints about fake members I messaged and chatted with a few real women and set up some dates, although some profiles didn’t reply at all. They may have been fake or bots, it’s hard to tell. Though I checked with the Better Business Bureau and there are only 7 complaints which is small for any dating site, so there can’t be that many unsatisfied customers.
If you are married – even single – and you are looking for a attached person to hook up with, or an affair on the sly to heat up a boring married life, Ashley Madison is worth joining. Do it here.
- Review by Joel.
Fling
Fling is a personals website made for people who are looking for casual dating and sex flings with men, women, couples or even transexuals.
When I joined I found there were lots of longstanding members, and not just people from the larger centers, there looked like there were a good amount of members in smaller cities, towns and rural areas, which can be rare in a dating site. One downside is that women were definitely outnumbered by men, but I did get to chat with some real women on there.
As far as features Fling has a great search feature which allows you to find a match in a large variety of categories so you can find someone close to your desires and tastes. It also has instant messaging and video chat which allows some sexual contact and nudity – I’ve even had some crazy hot chats and pics sent to me, it was surprising. You can also put your account in discreet mode so people can’t see your profile or see you checking out their personals ads.
While Fling doesn’t have the sheer member numbers of site like Adult Friend Finder it has a newer and fresher vibe and lots of sexy action happening as well. Check out Fling here.
- Review by Ryan.
Horny Matches
Horny Matches is a popular dating site for people looking for discreet encounters AKA sex. It is popular in the US and UK and there are several million active profiles on the website.
It is free to join and look at the profiles – and explicit and nude member pictures – and even send a wink to the singles that catch your eye, but you have to upgrade to a paid membership in order to respond to profiles, do live chat or webcam with them.
You can find someone suitable to your tastes and needs by searching by county, state and region as well as options like erotic chat, discreet relationships and fetishes.
We were aware there have been complaints of a high number of fake profiles and persons at Horny Matches and there did see to be more compared to other sites we reviewed, although we did come across what appeared to be real women and flirted with them … and they could have been bots, but seemed real to me. Something to keep in mind before you think of joining.
While not one of our top picks, Horny Matches might be a good choice for those tired of and burnt out on other personals sites. I would recommend maybe trying it for a month to see some fresh faces that aren’t on the other sites. You can check out the site here.
- Review by Justin.
Passion
Passion.com’s tagline is “Sexy Personals For Passionate Singles” which pretty sums up the site. With millions of members, It is one of the largest adult dating sites on the net, almost as large as Adult Friend Finder. There is about 125,000 members online at any time so there is a great chance of finding someone you are interested in and hooking up.
Compared to other adult dating websites Passion.com is classier and high end, with little of the vulgarity you find on other personals websites, although there is still plenty of sexiness, with members uploading 130,000 pics every week.
Another thing that makes Passion different is that with a free membership you can chat and IM with other members, which most of the other sites only allow with a paid membership. They also offer a three months guarantee for their paid upgrade so you really have nothing to lose.
The one drawback I found was some fake profiles, although you can report them and they are removed within 24 hours.
- Review by Ryan.
SexSearch
SexSearch is one of the more popular adult dating sites on the internet, boasting over 6.5 million members. If you want to check it out you can join for free and look at the profiles, although you can’t contact others. If you upgrade you get to use standard and video cam chat to flirt or hook up.
Their search engine allows your to search for almost any kind of niche, kink and interest you can imagine, and they have a cool feature called automatch where you get an email notification whenever someone joins who meets the preferences you set.
SexSearch also has other cool features like an “Ask Jenna” advice column where pornstar Jenna Jameson answers question from SexSearch members and also access to a giant amount of XXX porn videos and pictures, for those nights where you strike out I guess.
Take a look at SexSearch here.
- Review by Kris.